THE BLOG
If you've ever found yourself managing your parent's medication schedule while simultaneously fielding texts from siblings who "want updates but can't help this week," you know that caregiving isn't j...
It's a scenario many of us dread: sitting down with aging parents to discuss their financial situation, only to be met with resistance, changed subjects, or outright refusal. If you've experienced thi...
When we talk about caregiving for aging parents, we often focus on the physical and emotional aspects—doctor's appointments, medication management, and providing companionship. However, one of the mos...
Many families assume Medicaid will automatically cover their aging parents' long-term care needs. However, this assumption can lead to costly surprises. Medicaid has strict income and asset limits, an...
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In my latest episode of The Aging Parent Playbook, I talk about the sensitive issue of financial boundaries in caregiving. As caregivers, it’s essential to manage not only emotional and medical asp...
When Tasks Become a Shield
If you find yourself focusing intensely on the practical aspects of caregiving—managing medications, scheduling appointments, handling finances—while struggling to connect ...
As a caregiver for an aging parent, do you find yourself constantly checking your phone, wondering if everything's okay? Do you feel guilty taking even an hour for yourself? If this sounds familiar, y...
For many of us, driving represents far more than just getting from point A to point B—it's a symbol of independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency. When the time comes to discuss giving up driving wit...
Secure attachment develops when childhood caregivers are consistently reliable and responsive. As adults, those with secure attachment maintain healthy relationships and feel comfortable with both emo...
As we journey through the complexities of caring for aging parents, one truth becomes increasingly clear: the foundation of successful caregiving isn't just about managing tasks—it's about nurturing t...
"I'll sleep when I'm dead"
As an aging parent coach, I often hear the phrase "I'll sleep when I'm dead"  from both caregivers and aging parents. This dangerous mindset overlooks sleep's crucial role ...
When it comes to caring for aging parents, old family dynamics often resurface and new challenges emerge. What worked when we were children doesn't necessarily serve us now as adult siblings trying to...
